What To Do After You Get Engaged
Congratulations! You’ve just said “yes” to a lifetime of love, partnership, and yes, a bit of delightful planning chaos. As you’re now sporting a beautiful new sparkle on your finger, you might be wondering, “What’s next?” Here at Love & Whimsy Events, we believe in creating magical and stress-free planning experiences, so let’s dive into the blissful journey from “yes” to “I do.”
Step 1: Savor the Moment Before you dive into the depths of wedding planning, take a moment to bask in the joy of your engagement. Share the news with your loved ones, have an engagement party if you wish, or simply spend some quality time with your fiancé. Remember, this is a special time in your relationship, and it’s okay to revel in it a bit!
Step 2: Dream Up Your Ideal Wedding Start envisioning what you want your wedding to look like. Think about the season, the scale, and the style. Do you picture an intimate garden wedding or a grand ballroom affair? Vintage glam or modern chic? This is your chance to daydream about all those lovely details that will make your day uniquely yours.
Step 3: Set the Budget Before you book anything, know how much you want to spend. This crucial step will guide every decision you make and help you prioritize what’s truly important. Whether you’re imagining a lavish soiree or a simple, elegant gathering, setting a clear budget early will keep your planning smooth and straightforward.
Step 4: Pick a Date and Venue Your wedding date and venue will anchor your entire event. Consider the time of year, guest convenience, and your preferred theme when selecting a venue. Popular venues book fast, so get this step checked off early to ensure you secure the perfect spot for your special day.
Step 5: Choose Your Wedding Team Think about hiring a wedding planner (like us at Love & Whimsy!). A planner can be a lifesaver, helping you manage details, deadlines, and day-of logistics so you can enjoy your engagement period without stress. Next, start assembling your vendor team—photographers, caterers, florists, and more. These professionals will help bring your vision to life.
Step 6: Guest List and Invitations Who will witness this beautiful chapter in your life? Draft your guest list thoughtfully. Once finalized, you can send save-the-dates and later, your official wedding invitations. Remember, your guest count will influence many aspects of your planning, from the choice of venue to the catering bill.
Step 7: Details, Details, Details With the big decisions made, you can focus on the details. Choose your wedding attire, taste test cakes, pick out flowers, and decide on music. Each detail adds a personal touch that makes your wedding truly your own.
Step 8: Plan for the Unexpected As much as we adore a perfectly planned wedding, it’s wise to prepare for little hiccups. Consider wedding insurance, and have backup plans for major elements like the venue or photography. Flexibility and a good sense of humor will go a long way!
Step 9: Enjoy the Ride Lastly, remember to enjoy every moment of your engagement and wedding planning. It’s a joyful, once-in-a-lifetime adventure that leads to an even greater journey—marriage.
At Love & Whimsy Events- a wedding planner in Cincinnati, we are passionate about making your wedding planning experience as seamless and effortless as possible. Ready to start planning? Let’s create magic together!
